This giant called "Self-esteem"

It has been a while now have wanted to tackle this giant heads on ... because it's the cause of most people's downfall trying to leave the life of other people , trying to please everyone and trying to make everyone to like and love them which will never happen anyway.

So what is this self-esteem ?????

It's being confident in who you are as a person irrespective of what other people think about you, their opinion is non of your business so hello don't give a damn.

Bleaching or skin lightening has been the talk of town,everyone wants to "Toa Tint" and in a way the people rich with melanin like me are made to feel inferior , not beautiful and somehow worthless which is wrong.

I decided to look at the manual if your too spiritual the bible and what the manufacturer(God)was saying on the same,

Psalms 139:14 says;

I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well.

Thats awesome that God says am fearfully and wonderfully made and my soul knows it very well, which means if you don't understand that you are beautiful your neighbor, friend or perhaps your enemy is not ready to tell you, it has to come from within you.Don't try look for people to tell you how good or beautiful you are tell yourself coz that's what matters.

Imagine what God feels when you are trying to correct his works while his word says wonderful are his works lets say for example you are an artist and you have taken your time to draw and come up with a drawing,you have invested your time and thought it through to a point you are convinced this is it, then on the day to showcase it your friends come and begin making adjustments on what you believed was the best you can ever do .... I can just imagine the feeling of the artist but thats a human being what about God? How does he feel when you walk around town looking for how to bleach or plastic surgery just because you wanna please people or you want a sense of belonging, Is it worth it really????

If you are black he wanted you black, if you are white,yellow or maroon he wanted you whatever the color, if you are thin,slim ,petite name it he wanted you so, if you are a hippo,size 8, 12 ,56 he wanted you so,whatever you think you are he wanted you like that because thats how he wanted you to accomplish your purpose and assignment in life ... so stop adjusting the works of God and start living your purpose yoooo!!!

Imagine me doing skin lightening or kutoa tint .. am too black and i think i will use my entire life savings to change my skin color which am not sure if it will even be enough to remove the melanin, i would rather buy chicken na unga ya mexico and invite myself for a party you know heheheheheh!!!!!!

So be confident in yourself and in who you are and do you, because people will always have an opinion about you or what you do but focus on what God thinks and says about you coz at the end of the day thats what matters.

Walk with your head high coz your father is a king meaning you are a prince or princess , learn not to throw a stone to every dog that barks at you because for some reason they will always bark.

"Most people live like they will never die, and die having never truly lived", Unfortunately this is whats happening to most people, They live other people's expectations about them yet within them they are not happy ... So live your life and walk your journey with your head high knowing that you are beautiful as you are and don't allow anyone tell you otherwise.

I hope you will change your attitude towards life and love yourself coz no one is gonna love you more than you. You determine how other people treat you by the standards you set for yourself ... the good thing is that it will never be too late to start making those smart moves you know ... If you believe you are an eagle its time to stop hanging out with chicken and be an eagle that you are, start NOW and TODAY!!!!